All Open / All Closed.
Ok. I'm going to go out on a limb here.
You cannot continue to harbor:
* Rage
* Anger
* Hatred
* Judgement
* Fear of
a
* Person
* Group
* God
etc...
AND
At the same time, enjoy 1+:
* Deep
* Loving
* Connected
* Authentic
* Open
* Vulnerable
* Intimate
* Fulfilling
* Meaningful
...relationship(s) with people in your