All Open / All Closed.

Ok. I'm going to go out on a limb here.

You cannot continue to harbor:
* Rage
* Anger
* Hatred
* Judgement
* Fear of

a

* Person
* Group
* God
etc...

AND

At the same time, enjoy 1+:
* Deep
* Loving
* Connected
* Authentic
* Open
* Vulnerable
* Intimate
* Fulfilling
* Meaningful

...relationship(s) with people in your life.

The most powerful $ breakthrough in my life happened after MASSIVELY FORGIVING EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING (for hours/days).

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My teacher used to say, if you shut down ANY of your:
* Love
* Fear
* Anger
* Sadness
* Sexuality/desire/pleasure

THEN, you automatically shut down the rest of the list as well, whether you want to or not.